Counseling For Teens
Does Your Teen Often Feel As If No One Understands Them, Or Are They Unsure About Who They Are?
Is your teenager struggling to understand themselves and figure out who they are in the transition from child to teen? Are the new territories of understanding their sexuality, first relationships, and breakups making things even more confusing?
Perhaps your teen is having difficulties at school. Maybe they’re falling behind on their homework, struggling with ADHD, or dealing with bullying and peer pressure. These issues may lead them to believe they don't belong or no one else understands them.
At this point, it is perfectly natural that you, as a parent, would be starting to worry about your teen's well-being. The good news is that your teen doesn't have to continue to live with fear and doubt. Counseling can provide a safe, non-judgmental space for your teen to express themselves, discover new things about their identity, and be their authentic self.
Your Teen May Feel Overwhelmed By Pressure To Succeed In School And Have It All Together
You may find that your teen spends more time on their smartphone or playing video games than usual. They may even start isolating themselves from human interactions or have difficulty keeping friendships. They may also disconnect from their emotions, often distracting themselves, or even numbing their feelings because what they're experiencing is too painful to face.
As school demands increase and social pressures to "have it all together" mount, coupled with a constant barrage of conflicting messages on social media, it can be overwhelming for young people to figure out who they are and not get lost in all the "noise" around them. Luckily, teen counseling provides the perfect environment for quieting that noise and allowing your teen to breathe. This is a chance for your teen to learn valuable skills for managing their distress, improving their confidence, and navigating all the ups and downs of this challenging time of life.
Many Teens In Today’s World Struggle With Depression and Anxiety
According to KFF, 1 in 5 adolescents struggle with either anxiety or depression (1), as if teens don't already have enough on their plates with the changes that happen within their growing bodies and emotions. It can be difficult to face these challenges and process their internal world independently. After all, a teen's brain is still developing. Additionally, a teen may lack the skills to regulate their emotions and fully understand who they are.
In today’s society, it’s extra hard for teenagers to figure out who they really are because of social media's pressures and distractions. Tik Tok, Instagram, and other platforms have created an environment with so much pressure to be happy, productive, athletic, and popular. Life can start to feel like trying on hundreds of new identities without knowing what fits. Teens are bombarded with so many contradictory and unrealistic messages about love and success, and few of them have a space to really relax and be themselves
Counseling for teens gives your teen the opportunity to unwind and be honest about the struggles and pressures happening in their lives. With the guidance of a trained teen therapist, your teen can learn skills to regulate their emotions when life seems particularly rough. The ultimate goal is for them to "quiet the noise" on their own and better understand who they are as a person.
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Counseling Can Show Your Teen How To Have Compassion For Themselves
At Tate Chang Therapy, our professionally trained counselors will guide your teen through the process of recognizing their emotional needs, showing self-compassion, and connecting with their true selves. We’ll help your teen identify patterns that they may need to work on in addition to acknowledging their strengths and beauty. Clients gradually develop a genuine interest in their unique journey by nurturing a deep curiosity about their life story.
Our highly-trained therapists have worked with teens with diagnosed ADHD, autism, and dyslexia. We understand that teenagers already have it hard enough without these conditions. It can be difficult for any teen to open up and show themselves compassion, let alone a teen with a diagnosed mental health condition. That's where we come in, as we understand the crucial need for support in the teenage years.
As mentioned before, the ultimate goal is for your teen to "quiet the noise" on their own and better understand who they are as a person. That second part includes seeing the beauty and strengths within themselves. They may be unable to recognize their uniqueness and tenacity now, but with the right guidance, those positives will flourish and be built upon.
Modalities Used In Counseling For Teens
At Tate Chang Therapy, our staff understands that each teen is unique. That’s why we offer a variety of different treatments and techniques to find the best plan of action for your teen, some of which include:
Strength-Based Therapy: This type of therapy focuses on the strengths, good points, and beauty that your teen already possesses.
Acceptance Commitment Therapy: ACT for teens is all about figuring out how to live their lives according to their values and ultimately accepting themselves for who they are.
Mindfulness: This therapeutic approach utilizes techniques that help teens slow down and regulate the nervous system through deep breathing, allowing them to be more kind to themselves.
Integrative Customized Approach: This approach allows the client to pick and choose what treatment preferences they would like based on their personality.
Your teen can find inner peace even in uncertain times. With support, they can become more comfortable in their own skin and prioritize self-acceptance over seeking constant external validation. They can achieve a sense of harmony between their body, mind, and emotions, leading to a more positive self-image.
You May Be Interested In Counseling For Your Teen But Have Some Questions…
I am concerned that my teenager is stressed and depressed.
Teenagers are experiencing an incredible amount of social pressures that may be hard to understand and difficult to navigate on their own. We can provide strategies to reduce anxiety, stress, depression, hopelessness, and self-doubt. As a licensed school psychologist and having worked in schools, we’ve helped hundreds of students improve their self-esteem and gain a sense of belonging, competence, and responsibility. Many teenagers walk away from sessions with a renewed sense of hope and optimism, and we’re confident that your teen will experience the same thing.
I am concerned about the risky behaviors that my teen is engaging in.
We know it can be painful seeing your loved ones act out inappropriately and cope with difficulties in unhealthy ways. Through our work, we strive to motivate teens to find safe, healthy coping skills to replace harmful ones. We see risky behaviors as a symptom of teenagers not understanding themselves well and not knowing how to accept and love themselves radically. We will work with your teenager to get to the root of the problem instead of finding a quick-fix solution, ensuring that your teen experiences deep, meaningful healing.
My teen had a bad experience with a therapist in the past and is afraid of being judged or misunderstood.
We’re sorry your teen had a bad experience with a previous therapist. It can be scary opening up to a complete stranger and having to share personal things all over again, especially when you've had a negative prior experience. Finding a therapist can be sort of like dating; you may need to try meeting a handful of therapists before you find one with whom you feel comfortable. The burden is on us to ensure you feel comfortable, so just come as you are.
Are You Ready To See Your Teen Thrive?
If you want your teen to go on a journey of self-discovery and self-esteem building, we urge you to begin the process by calling (408) 479-4663 for a 15-minute consultation. You can also contact us from our Contact Page or our Calendly page.
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